soulmates

have you ever ; just once in your life

REALIZE that you have a soulmate and yet you HAVE found her?

according to the encyclopedia i read ; soulmate (or soul mate) is a term sometimes used to designate someone with whom one has a feeling of deep and natural affinity, friendship, love, intimacy, sexuality, spirituality and/or compatibility. A related concept is that of the twin flame or twin soul – which is thought to be the ultimate soulmate, the one and only other half of one's soul, for which all souls are driven to find and join. However, not everyone who uses these terms intends them to carry such mystical connotations.
One theory of soulmates, presented by Aristophanes in Plato's Symposium, is that that humans originally were combined of four arms, four legs, and a single head made of two faces, but Zeus feared their power and split them all in half, condemning them to spending their lives searching for the other half to complete them.
Some followers of the New Age religion believe that souls are literally made and/or fated to be the mates of each other, or to play certain other important roles in each other's lives.
According to theories popularized by Theosophy and in a modified form by Edgar Cayce, God created androgynous souls, equally male and female. The souls split into separate genders later, perhaps because they incurred karma while playing around on the earth, or "separation from God". Over countless reincarnations, each half seeks the other. When all karmic debt is purged, the two will fuse back together and return to the ultimate.

from all books and datas i've read ; NONE of them ever mentioned that soulmate could be identical with a really best best friend. they shaped this "soulmate" as someone ; whom is different gender -and that God really created him for her or in the opposite order. soulmate is talking about a partner. partner of all life. partner in crime. partner in tears. partner in greatfully situation. and that all we'll be doing -he/she will always try to learn to accept to love us as in minus and positiv.

but how can i? how can i have felt that way of ALREADY FOUND my soulmates..

yet she is a girl. yet she is older than me. yet we are look alike. yet we are never be a couple FOR SURE -i mean yeah cmon we both soo normal.

is it true? that soulmate was just talking about our love obsession?

well here's another DIFFERENT between the boys and the girls

boys -they tend to see this soulmate as someone (still) they are really loved and really having this 'soul communications' between one to another. but men or boys ; they dont see this "soulmate" as a barbie of just love obsession. not that simple. they believe that somehow God created everyone as a couple. and sometimes ; in real life this couple just cant find their way to get together in the holly marriage. but they perhaps just alive as their bestfriend. really really bestfriend. and yet they (as in men) love this women in deeper way ; and different way because they (as in women) understood him more than anyone ever.

girls -women as the community always said ; have more anthusiasm (actually i just find the right word ; soo just say anthusiasm) in rely and role in their relationship. women in a very big number DO agree that soulmate means everyone that you will be married with. soulmate depends on that LOVE first.

soulmate..

what is soulmate ACTUALLY about?

trust

take and give

sacrifise

learn to accept

understand the best

respect -no underestimate

they know both their world

reliable everytime

forgive

soul commmuncation

love

love

if they both in love -why should they only stand on that line of friendship?

if i'm being the woman -it'll be hurts ; to lose my soulmate and not having him as my husband or that i found how my husband has his own soulmate -not me.

it's just.. i mean-it's gonna be polluting the marriage life, isn't it?

ps : eh gilaa bahasan gw BERAT bgd yaa? ahahha ;p

about 2 years ago ; i felt these feelings that i've been found my soulmate.

a bestfriend. a real bestfriend. a lifetime bestfriend ; i mean it's everbody's dream..

a senior at my school. we're both actually have met for hundreds thousands of time.

since elementary school to junior high we went to the same school.

when i saw her first time ever ; i just didnt really catch the eye. not really want to know her.

when she first saw me ; she disliked my friend whose at that time -being with me. so she was thinking that i perhaps just the same as her (;my friend)

well now i dont really with that old friend. hah she's that kind of two faces. liars. bullshitting around. hah i just hate that kinda girl.

soo me and my soulmate met again at the 2nd junior high. first we just doing nothing to get near each another. just acting NORMAL. she was at the 3rd grade already..

both of us not really remembered when all the things were started ; how could we SUDDENLY get very very close to each other -just like we have known each other for years.

having her is best.

although some attitudes of her sometimes hurt or acceptable ; i never hate her. well once -really once i tried but i CANT. REALLY CANT. like then i missed the other half of me...

she understands me best

i understand her best

she knows what i'll be doing at many circumstances

and i definitely soo know what she'll do in sad anger disspointment or just joy

being with her always make me smile laugh and we always have thousands of story to tell about each other ; we'd never get bored. we share the hugs the shoulders and the hands to lean on.

AMAZING.

right now ; she's no longer in jakarta. soo many time i miss her.

she really can burried my minus and bad habbits ; like being completed by her.

and i guess that's also what she feels about me ; yeaps she told me once.

she's a great girl.

sometimes i want to be her ; having her independent life.

how lovely.

well i guess somehow someday i'll find my own independent ;)

is she really my soulmates?

i dont know.

but one thing clear.

she always know when i'm sad happy glad -through distance

and when she's sick or hurts i could felt that through hundreds of kilometres

we have this soul communication really well

and sometimes when she has her bad times ; i was having mine also

love you mel ;)

bbbff. as what we've promised.